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No cynical or snide back chat here http://www.hersbandandwife.com From the heart of Hersband & Wife to the hearts of the GLBT&Q community They share their wisdom and life experiences of living an out and proud lifestyle like only they can http://www.hersbandandwife.com/main.html Hersband and Wife ask the world to hold hands for 30 minutes on Aug 26th 2009 at 12 noon, to show the world that GLBT love is no different than hetero love http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_43.html Hersband and Wife give advice on coming out to a 13 year old girl desperate to come out to her classmates, teachers and parents. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_42.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a bisexual woman who is seeking a lesbian relationship http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_41.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a woman who would like to get married and have a family, but her GF doesnt believe in marriage http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_40.html Hersband and wife give advice to a woman who is having trouble dating in the Lesbian realm because of the bisexual identity she has held to. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_39.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a couple who have been dating for 2 months and want to marry already. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_38.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a girl who is experiencing the loss of a friendship and love relationship because of religion http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_37.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a 55 year old who is wanting to get back in the dating scene. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_36.html Hersband and Wife give advice to a couple where one is disabled and wants to give birth after only being together 18 months http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_35.html What to do when a family member buts into your relationship. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_34.html Woman comes out as a lesbian but then becomes confused. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_33.html Single mom would like to know where to find "rainbow" friends. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_31.html H&W Talk about domestic violence in relationships. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_30.html H&W have gotten some great questions from not only the GLBT community, but the straight community as well. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_28.html I have been reading your blogs and like all the info you give to the people. My problem is I was in this relationship with my partner for 25 years she's been my only lesbian relation I have had. We broke up is going on 3 years now but we have kept in touch and even live as roommate now, I thought maybe being roommates we will get back together but no. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_29.html Sen. Barney Frank D-MA was quoted as saying; “What a ‘homophobe’ means is someone who has prejudice about gay people,” Frank told Boston radio station WBZ. Scalia, he said, “makes it very clear that he’s angry, frankly, about the existence of gay people” in his written opinions. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_27.html The popular couple are back bigger and better than ever. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_26.html H&W deal with the question of what you do when your potential in-Laws dont approve or like you. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_24.html Coming out can be hard when you aren't sure how you family will take it. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_20.html I am in love with my best friend who lives with me and we occasionally make love. The catch is she is in love with this man. when I make love to her she screams his name. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_16.html One partner always wants it while the other only sometimes wants it. Could it be hormonal? http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_18.html I thought I was a lesbian? But then I fell in love with a man, does that make me bisexual? http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_19.html GLBTQ People need immigration protection too! http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_17.html ok, here's the deal, I came out as bi a few years back, it seemed semi-safer then coming out to my family as lesbian....but, the concept of having sex, with a man, ewww!!! i am currently in a relationship with a man. he's a year or so younger then me. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_21.html Lesbians with an age gap in a relationship where one of them lives at home with the parents FAR away from the other. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_22.html Wife gets on her soapbox about Gay marriage. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_4.html Look, I pass as a man most of the time, ya know? I give women heart attacks in the bathroom, I get called sir and "young man". When people call on the phone they even call me sir or Mr so and so. I'm not pretty. So why the F*ck do I still get hit on by straight guys? http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_7.html In this day and age this is an OUTRAGE!! That someone can be treated this way for allowing a student to print an article about tolerance and be shown none herself. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_3.html Is there a such thing as being in between femme and butch? http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_8.html I recently came out to my family and they asked me when I knew, and that made me wonder, how old other people were when they knew and how long they waited before they came out to their families. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_10.html A question from Hersband and Wife to the readers with their opinion on the issue and your chance to respond.We have had an ongoing discussion going on because of the social and political climate going on in the United states right now. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_15.html Hersband and Wife answer a question about sex during menstral cycle. http://www.hersbandandwife.com/nm/publish/article_14.html My wife and I are both in our early 30s and have lived with each other for two years. 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